Merci

Mary-Anne Wielinga • February 8, 2023

Thank you

I do tend to like to do things backwards.

Did you know that the tendency to be grateful can be a personality trait? I didn't know this until recently. I am a Campaigner (Extraverted, Intuitive, Feeling, and Prospecting personality traits – ENFT) in the Myers & Briggs test. My sons’ school used 16 personalities to assist the kids to understand themselves and naturally I had to have a play. It appears Campaigners tend to gratitude. I'm going to just take this idea and go to town and express my gratitude.

Yesterday, my mischievous mother requested that my (one day) book be dedicated to her. After laughing it got me thinking about acknowledgements in books. I would like to do some acknowledging now, why wait?

I feel a bit like I can imagine the Wright brothers felt when they had their amazing idea to create a flying machine and they had been working on it for years. The general shape of the machine is coming together and they now have a prototype to try out. This is where I feel I am with the last 5 years of my "scribbles".

This process of observing, creating, and mapping has not happened in isolation. The first person to thank is my hubby; he's been backing me by supporting my adventures as well as with wisdom and money! Between him and a dear Curly haired friend, I've had all the technical problems workshopped and resolved.

How do you thank your own children? The truth is without my youngest's difficulties I wouldn't be who I am today. I actually think without his severe insomnia in the first (decade?) years I would not have moved from being stuck in my head to using my heart. Don't get me wrong, I've always been heart centric, but not as a practitioner. Before 35, I analysed everything with my mind. After 35, I used my perception. I was beyond exhaustion and I was unable to think, I had to find a new way to practise… what a blessing in the guise of torture. My eldest child has been my ra ra team, enthusiast and guy on the sideline literally saying " good job mum!". Thank you, darlings.

Next are my two old bosses, Trent and Tanya. With Tanya I found a path in the wood that was definitely the road less travelled and as result am the practitioner I am today. Bedankt. Trent encouraged me to follow what I was drawn to, even when it seemed like madness. Danke.

I also appreciate the many women mates that have cried with me, listened to me (over and over), and laughed with me. As one precious friend wrote in a poem only last year:

"You feel to think, I think to feel".

It was such a revelation! I sure do feel to think, now more than ever.

I am so grateful to have precious friends that get me to the core. My dear Kathy that was there at the beginning- your words of encouragement to write have been fundamental to me starting this blog. Love ya.

So who did I forget?

Ops.... maybe I should thank my mum? You're the best mum!

Mum and dad have listened to my fears, encouraged me, supported me at home with my youngest... so I could work. Without them I would not have been still in the work force. No, that is not an exaggeration. So when it comes down to it – I am most grateful to the three layers of my family. I get to do what I love most, which is help people with their pain. Merci.

I feel this feeling of gratefulness like a singing in my bones. It is a joy to be alive, a joy to be walking the path that I feel I was "made" for. To be. So... my dear friend, dear traveller, thank you for walking the path with me today.

Merci

xx Mary-Anne

Healing as a whole person

By Mary-Anne Wielinga • January 29, 2024
One concept of health is wholeness in body, mind and spirit. Yet what I consider 'health’ as is not a ‘perfect’ whole body, mind and spirit. Perfect is not really achievable for many (and is the top athlete ever truly happy with their health? I don't know!). We need to look at health in a living state of our body, mind and spirit. The World Health organisation describes health as; "a state of complete physical, mental and social well-being and not merely the absence of disease or infirmity".

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seeing the whole body

By Mary-Anne Wielinga • December 4, 2023
We have been looking at the links between our body, mind and spirit. The question remains: how are they linked when we are unwell? The idea that what we think and feel can make us sick has been around for a long time. On the flipside, it is very clear that sometimes we are sick independent of thoughts and feelings. Yet the emotions appear to be there anyway. How does that work? They seem to be impossible to unravel. In fact, I suspect it is simultaneous; it happens together. It may appear that one precedes the other, and perhaps that is true. My theory is that the WHOLE self changes its function and it manifests in one form, most visibly in the body. Yet, body, mind and spirit are damaged at the same time. I know this appears to be different to the comment I wrote in my last blog - that a ‘broken’ body can be whole and healthy. Perhaps the examples in my mind are people that have grown as a result of their injuries? An accident ends with a body becoming paraplegic; however, the person’s mind and spirit grow in strength and stamina. Spiritual and emotional well-being can be independent of physical health. Perhaps this is the exception? Or a goal? If we are blessed to age, we have changes in our body, markers of our life, such as arthritis in the fingers, bellies that sag, and wrinkles. These are normal. For example, corrosive thinking wears down the body, which aligns with basic histology that shows cells can take decades to change their form. The cells are eventually worn down. They function differently for a while, then change shape and become functionally different. Specific example: type two diabetes doesn't come out of nowhere; the body is attempting to cope for a long time before it can no longer work its insulin magic. Change means that time is a key factor. My limited understanding of physics suggests that the answer will eventually come from there. Give it another 50 years. There is some very cool information on simultaneous time (time appears to flow forwards and backwards) as well as quantum entanglement. We are peeking at a problem in another room through a little keyhole! In my practice, I have seen how the WHOLE self changes its function and sickness manifests in one form, most visibly in the body. However, with an ill body, the mind and spirit are damaged in a linked timeframe. We have so much more to learn. In my next post I talk about this with concrete examples.

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I have used this term ‘balance’ quite a lot in my blogs, but the meaning may at times be elusive to its actual function in our bodies.

Tell me a story

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All stories are part of one big story. And there are a range of story tellers.

Update

August 20, 2023
Hello my friends! A little update to let you know how my project is progressing. I now have a sight on when I will finish getting the last 10% of my "scribbles" into confluence. 10th of September! thats the plan ! keep me accountable, ok? I have hit a few snags in this last bit. Firstly when I started writing down my arms work several years ago, I muddled up the drawings of the arms. It turns out if you don't draw enough land marks it is quite easy to mix the orientation of the arms.. don't ask, its a painful, irritating mistake. The result is I will need to remap the arms again. As well as being almost finished with digitising, I would say I am close to having mapped the body "completely" the first time around. Perhaps 80-90% ? ( hmmm maybe that estimate is a bit high..) As I have said earlier I expect to need to travel to other communities to complete the work fully, as well as needing about 10-20 years to finish it to a satisfactory level. What do I mean by that? Each Body point is its own story and journey within it and will need many, many datapoints over time to round it out and make it complete. Time is the only remedy for that one! I've decided to have an open day on the 10th of September (2023) if you are local and can pop in, I would love to see you. I am planning to have all my work out, with Tracy's gorgeous illustrations to be seen! I have a few hundred pages by the way! I plan to show everyone a little of how it works on the day. If you are curious, this is the day for you! xx Mary-Anne

Madness

August 17, 2023
I thought I was going mad. I have been feeling like an old typewriter... following a trail of ideas and attempting to go back to the beginning... over and over again. Do you remember the typewriters that have the lever so you can use "return" and start the next row? But rows flow? "ting!" My madness was in thinking that the way I have been creating was "wonky" or "wrong". The weird idea was that I was supposed to follow one path of ideas to completion and then start the next idea. WRONG! Instead I have been working on multiple threads of projects all at once… like a mad busy lady. I realise now, if I followed that way, I would lose so many leads of information and lose an immense amount of time (I'm guessing years, people!). Sigh. Relief. I am what I am. Those of you that know me well would be fully aware that I am a sensitive creature that tends to not care and also fret - all at the same time. I feel a sense of relief that this way of working, my way, is indeed perfect for my job. At the moment I am attempting to create a cohesive picture of the Chest. It involves about 11 paired lung points, the 6 heart points, an undetermined number of intercostal points, possibly 9 paired breast points, as well as the rib margin points. Also, did I mention the points around the collarbone? Many of these are very close to each other and may overlap. What makes it extra tricky is that mapping and recording one point this morning resulted in me working on a left foot point, in an entirely different system (wait what.. another system? Yes, I am creating 3 different systems at once… that info can just remain hidden for a few more years). Chest, breast, foot, now… where was I? So now you can see why I feel like a typewriter... I must continually return my little brain to the beginning.... "ting!". But I also need to acknowledge the threads and links… and that is where more knowledge and insights may lie.  My darling cousin R said years ago I was like a Rosella... noisy, colourful, messy and creative, and just to be myself. Slowly, slowly, I see that this insane, haphazard way of creating is just fine, thanks ! Thanks for listening! xx Mary-Anne
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